Preparation, Practice and Presence

Do you have a heart for worship and a desire to encourage your congregation to sing?
Do you sometimes struggle with the practicalities of how to do this?
LOU FELLINGHAM WORSHIP HUB is for YOU

I'm Lou Fellingham

Most weeks, I meet passionate worship leaders who love to worship and long to lead their people well. But often there are gaps in confidence, musical skill, or spiritual understanding that make it hard to lead as freely and effectively as they’d like. Concerns about “reaching the moment,” wondering whether the congregation is connecting, figuring out how to flow between songs, and sensing the Holy Spirit’s leading — these are just a few of the things that can cause anxiety and self-doubt.


I get it. I’ve had many moments where fear has crept in and I’ve thought, “What if I pick the wrong song and blow it?!”I’ve known what it is to step out in faith — and what it is to shrink back. But
God calls us to love Him, love His people, and lead them to Him. We want to do this with both skill and confidence.


After more than 30 years of leading worship, I’ve experienced all kinds of highs and lows. Along the way, I’ve learned principles and practices that have helped me grow — and I want to pass those on to you.


When we encounter the love and presence of the triune God — Father, Son, and Spirit — we are changed. As worship leaders, our calling is to help create space for that encounter through sung worship, inviting our congregations to participate, not just observe.

One of the key things we experience as worship leaders is that feeling of being alone. We may have questions or be in need of support as we lead week in, week out. That is why I have created 'Lou Fellingham Worship Hub'. A place where we can gather online as worship leaders, develop our gifts as worship leaders and cheer each other on. Recognising we all have things to share and receive.

As a gift for you, I have put together a resource, 'How to prepare a songlist with ease'. All you have to do is head here to sign up and it's YOURS FOR FREE.

'How To Lead Worship With Ease'

IS MY BRAND NEW RESOURCE HELPING WORSHIP LEADERS PREPARE THEIR SONGLIST WITH EASE SO THEY CAN

LEAD WITH FAITH & CONFIDENCE FROM DAY ONE

Preparing a song list isn’t just about choosing a few good songs—it’s about creating space for people to encounter God. Often time is pressured and the weight of leading can become a heavy burden rather than a joy. Whether we drift into routine, rush decisions, or just don't know what to do next, we can feel stuck or rely on what’s familiar.

God is looking for hearts that love and worship Him first and love His people second. As we approach our preparation we want to come with reverence but also recognise that God loves to meet with His people. We are dependant on Him and His Spirit to bring revelation.

A thoughtfully prepared song list helps support freedom, unity and flow, allowing both the team and the congregation to engage with ease and unlock the sound of worship that we are created to bring. It gives you confidence, reduces stress, and creates room for the Holy Spirit to move—not by replacing spontaneity, but by supporting it.

Grab your FREE 'How To Prepare A Song List With Ease

This is for you whether you lead a small or large congregation and team

Hear From Those Who Grown Through My Coaching

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"Lou has been a hugely encouraging, inspirational and valuable voice into the worship life of our church. She has served us excellently in a number of different ways: As a guest worship leader, teaching at our training programme, and hosting an evening with our worship team. Her wealth of experience is a gift to future generations of worship leaders!"

- Chris Johnson (Worship Pastor and Leader) Southampton

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"Lou’s input into our worship team has been invaluable! She’s equipped our team to lead worship more effectively, helped individuals find their confidence, strengthened singers technically, as well as unlocked prophetic singing. With a huge wealth of experience, she always teaches with a heart of love for the local church and compassion for the individual. We’re so grateful for input into our team!"

- Simon Brading (Worship Pastor and Leader) London

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“Lou saw what God had placed on me before I ever began to and called it out of me. She has helped me step out in singing out my new songs and in prophetic singing. Her gentle but firm encouragement for me to be prepared, to listen to the Spirit’s lead and have confidence to wait or fill the space has helped form who I am as a worship leader today."

- Jess Debenham (Worship Leader) Brighton

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